She'll pretty much have to and other thoughts
First, last night I won back-to-back poker tournaments at Coyote. I got lucky and sucked out on a couple hands, but overall I just played pretty well. I am getting a lot better at reading people and also being patient, which is really, really hard for me.
Today, is DC Bach’s birthday. If you haven’t wished him a happy one, you should, especially if you are a hot slut.
I have several pictures to post from the cage match Kassy and I had this past Saturday. They’re pretty cute if you like pictures of school girls dancing up on each other with Asian chicks.
So, after I placed a comment on First Date DC earlier, I thought of a story to tell from that school girl night.
A very WASPy looking girl and frat G-town looking guy were watching the crowd and dancing from two chairs in the corner. He got up and I decided to take a breather from dancing and sat down next to the girl. She smiled awkwardly.
V: Your boyfriend bring you here?
WASP: My fiancé.
V: He used to bring his ex-girlfriends here?
WASP: Yes, he said it can be fun sometimes.
V: You having fun.
WASP: (obviously lying) Oh yeah, it’s great.
V: Really because you aren’t dancing or even dressed up.
WASP: Well, I guess it’s a little intimidating.
V: Sure. You know, probably all your boyfriend wants is to get another attractive girl in the mix.
WASP: (eyes widen) You think.
V: He’s a guy right? And, if he used to come here w/ his ex I am sure it was for threesomes or maybe an orgy.
WASP: I’m not having an orgy.
V: I don’t blame you. But if you’re smart, you’ll pick out some hot girl and bring her into the couple. Someone you like. If you do that he probably won’t drag you to clubs like this anymore.
WASP: I don’t think that’s what he wants.
V: Okay sure, but see what his reaction is when you suggest it.
WASP: (Glares at V) Maybe.
So that sucks for her, right. I mean she is S-C-R-E-W-E-D in not the good way. This guy neglected to mention before he slipped on that rock that he likes it freaky. And, we're not just talking a diamond for a BJ, or hey honey, let's try anal. Brother wants to get down.
But, now that little darling is in love with him, planning her wedding and she has to start worrying about how to keep this guy on the hook until the big day.
I wonder how many girls get roped into this situation? They are so excited to finally get engaged to “Mr. Right” who seems quite satisfied with their current sex life and then suddenly he suggests something that “might be fun…me and my ex used to do…”
I mean what the hell is she supposed to say? And sure, maybe he’ll get lucky. Maybe she’s had it in her all along. But probably, if the reason she is experimenting is to just keep him around, it just won’t last. She’ll feel uncomfortable, resent him and punish him in other ways in their daily life, probably mostly by nagging and bitching.
He’ll have her half-assed attempt to spice things up and when that fails, he will start looking elsewhere for what he needs—something he should have admitted in the first place. But how does a guy go about doing that? When is the right time?
Well, I’ll tell you when it’s not the right time, after you’ve asked her to marry you.