Saturday, June 03, 2006

Guest Blogger Bettie: Q&A for the blogger floggers

V Note: The guest posts continue with Bettie who lets us all get a little more exposed to her world. More guest bloggers coming soon...

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V: Sorry I’ve been really busy lately, but after reading what your readers said in those comments you sent me, I thought maybe I could explain a little more about why I enjoy this side of sexuality. I’ll try to write about another playtime soon. Enjoy ;) Bettie

P.S. It looks like from the comments some of your readers are familiar with this lifestyle—maybe I can talk to some people about having a blogger flogger night (just kidding!).

Q: When were you first interested in BDSM (Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism )?
Bettie: I think it all started when I first began to love my body and love the bodies of both women and men. I have always been fascinated with nudists and have always had an appreciation for strippers, both male and female. I have always been sexually uninhibited and one thing lead to another. I was very fortunate for going to a liberal college that had many clubs and bars that encouraged going topless. And it also helped that my sophomore year roommate was into swinging.

Q: Why DC?
Bettie: I had heard about DC's fetish scene and wanted to be involved in it. No where else (not even New York or LA) can you join this many groups and find a swingers/BDSM party every day of the week at any time. Just yesterday, there was a lunch hour "eat and beat" party in Dupont.

Q: What is it like having an audience watch you perform?
Bettie: It is an amazing experience. Having an audience of 50 people watch you as you get fucked is performance art. Sure, I scream a little bit louder and cum a little bit harder. Because it's what my partner wants and it is what the audience wants to watch.

Think of the high you get when your boss tells everyone at work that you do a really good job, or you are given an award for your service and efforts. That's what it feels like. Acceptance, assurance, and at the same time this is going on mentally, you are being physically pleased by two hot girls sucking on your tits and a man behind you hitting you in the ever so amazing spot. It is the ultimate pleaser.

Think of the high you get when your boss tells everyone at work that you do a really good job, or you are given an award for your service and efforts. That's what it feels like. Acceptance, assurance, and at the same time this is going on mentally, you are being physically pleased by two hot girls sucking on your tits and a man behind you hitting you in the ever so amazing spot. It is the ultimate pleaser.

Q: How skilled are you as a dominatrix and what are your favorite things to practice?
Bettie: I am by no means experienced enough to call myself a dominatrix. My favorites include flogging, spanking, public punishment, humiliation, show fucking, swinging, and electric playing.

Q: Are your partners mostly women, men, trannies, married, dating, or single?
Bettie: It is pretty split. There are a lot of couples (both dating and married) in the swingers and BDSM scene. There are many single men who want to play but rules make it hard for them to get into clubs and groups being a single man. And the single women are few because of safety concerns. There are a lot of married men that want to either be dominated in front of their wife or want to watch as their wife is fucked into the heavens by another man or a domme with a strap-on.

8 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

DCB & Sally, please take note.

12:34 PM  
Blogger Complacent Chase said...

I really am loving Bettie as a guest blogger! :-)

A blogger flogger night? Isn't that what the Blogger Happy Hours are anyway? hee hee (Yes, I said it! WHAT!!?)

1:12 PM  
Blogger O-FACE said...

Actually thats not a bad idea...Blogger Flogger...I could see the post and pics now...1000 comments easily...

7:18 PM  
Blogger KassyK said...

I am loving Bettie as well...I am TOTALLY interested in this scene...I will be attending something quite soon and maybe Betty will be there. You never know know? I would LOVE to be a dominiatrix. mmmmmm.

9:18 AM  
Blogger A Unique Alias said...

Great interview - - this is a fascinating series.

(But a paragraph is repeated twice in the middle.)

10:13 AM  
Blogger Phil said...

Hee hee! I feel like I'm 13 and just found some discarded porn in the woods.

12:28 PM  
Blogger Heather B. said...

Phil captured my thoughts exactly. Holy hell... see if she'll come to HH.

1:16 PM  
Blogger Raincouver said...

Hi Bettie, nice to meet you... "mmmffmmmfffmfmff"... what's that? Would love to talk but... oh, I see now. Uhm, sorry to disturb you... should I close the door or was that open on purpose? "MMMFFF-FFF!"
Okay, okay... sorry!

Maybe some other time. (Bettie rocks!)

4:51 PM  

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